Sick!

Apr. 14th, 2024 01:51 pm
alias_sqbr: Me on a couch asleep with a cat sitting on my lap top, with the caption out of spoons error (spoons)
Cam and I both have a cold. A superstitious part of me feels like if I say "we're pretty sure it's not covid" we will both have a sudden turn and DIE, especially since it turned out our RAT tests were out of date and I can't get new ones til tomorrow. But the expired test was negative at least, and I like knowing that people know why I'm replying to emails etc even less than usual.

I think this is our first respiratory infection of any kind since the pandemic started, and man, that extra worry just adds an extra layer on top of the general unpleasantness of having a cold. I don't do as badly with colds as some people with cfs, and thus far this one is relatively mild, but it still sucks, and even after the symptoms clear I'm always knocked out for a bit. At least I don't have any plans coming up, I had once again vaguely pondered flopping outside Swancon if I was having an especially good day but I won't be having any of those for a while :/

I've seen people talk about their cats comforting them when they're sick but ours just sit at the opposite end of the room staring wide eyed with a mixture of fear and resentment every time we cough or sneeze.

The symptoms were so mild at first we didn't even realise it was a cold, which is mostly good, but does mean we missed the window for antivirals without even realising let alone deciding if we wanted to go that route. Ah well, this has been a reminder to have all that stuff better organised!
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[personal profile] distantcam doesn't actually read dreamwidth but I'm POSTING THIS ANYWAY.

That's 20 years of dating, we've only been married for 12 years, but we don't care about that so much. It's strange looking back on 20 years together, thinking about how much has happened and how much we've changed. We had NO IDEA what we were doing at 19 (me) and 21 (Cam), so the fact we tumbled into a functional relationship that's survived 20 years of ups and downs feels like a miracle. I mean we did try very hard to communicate honestly etc. We just didn't expect that to work.

We met at a party in December 1998, where we were both avoiding unwanted suitors and wanting distraction from recent breakups. So when we found ourselves next to a cute, charming stranger on a two person couch we avoided our usual self consciousness/over-thinking, all I AM TALKING TO THIS CUTIE AND STAYING WHERE I AM AND HAVING FUN, SCREW YOU UNIVERSE. And then it turned out we were both enrolled in 3rd year computer science at the same uni in 1999, so we avoided lectures together in the scifi club and bonded. At a party in early March we both made a concerted effort to flirt with each other and got our wires largely crossed, but somehow figured out we were mutually interested just in time for my dad to come pick me up to go home. And on March 8 1999 we sat next to each other in the scifi club and slowly and shyly held hands and then after like...two hours one of us asked "So are we...dating...??" and the other one said "I think so???" and the rest is history :D

I remember emailing our mutual friend [personal profile] gelignite to say that I wasn't sure it would last but Cam was nice so far. AND HERE WE ARE.

And here's to another 20 years more :)
alias_sqbr: Torchwood spoilers for various episode numbers: Jack dies (torchwood spoilers)
Have been feeling braindead and thus watching and reading Skip Beat(*) which I've really enjoyed. Thankyou to whoever recced it to me. Here's a nice unspoilery rec explaining why it's awesome. Plus there's a very nice central het ship and a non-canon-but-very-subtexty femslash ship both of which are also fun :)

Before that I was rewatching selected RTD Dr Who episodes with Cam which uh…reminded me how much I like the latest season (though it certainly wasn't all bad)

Anyway a somewhat paraphrased version of a conversation I and Cam had this evening…(SPOILERS for Skip Beat and Dr Who Season 4)
SPOILERS )

(*)Watch the anime (legally and for free!), read the manga (free and…maybe legally?) Note that the manga is ongoing and the anime just covers the first few volumes ending at a natural pause so neither has a super neat ending.

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