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and that conversation brings up one knee-jerk response for me, and this is coming from an old queer, gender-challenged woman;

"oh, poor baby!"

If circumstances force you into an outsider's position, you will have to suck it up. it's a plain fact that you will always be the minority. Whining about it won't change it. Nothing, ever, will change it.

I wonder if falling remember what it was like to be the girl in a predominantly male space?