These things really are a lot more complicated than usually gets talked about. Even in settings specifically for people to talk about how it's more complicated, as you discovered. You are not the first person I have met who wants ALL the gender including sometimes no gender. I'm sure you'll find others now that you're talking about it more widely, if you haven't already. They're out there. Everyone and everything is out there - infinite diversity in infinite combinations. ;)
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These things really are a lot more complicated than usually gets talked about. Even in settings specifically for people to talk about how it's more complicated, as you discovered. You are not the first person I have met who wants ALL the gender including sometimes no gender. I'm sure you'll find others now that you're talking about it more widely, if you haven't already. They're out there. Everyone and everything is out there - infinite diversity in infinite combinations. ;)