From what you said in the hateshipping post: "It just means that I enjoy seeing or imagining them together."

I don't participate in "I can't believe anyone ships..." conversations.

I think "X is better than Y" is fine as a conversation generator, but not as something to get wrought up about.

Many of my favorite ships are crossovers, and I consider friendship/romance/sex to be constantly mutating and highly overlapping sets, so conversations that hinge on whether something is canon or that draw fine distinctions among those things lose me.