The trouble here is not that they were talking about gender, privilege, or indeed much of anything, except how worthless/evil/unworthy all males inherently were

Righto. I was moderately sure that's the sort of thing you were talking about, but wanted to cover my bases in case you had a problem with ever being told "shut up and let me tell you" about gender/sexism, as well as the case where you didn't mean that, but someone reading your comment interpreted it that way.

Yeah, I'm hot&tired too, it's making me a bit paranoid about being misinterpreted :/ (Also apparently "The pot only lies on one side". I think I need a nap...)

Anyway, I do get where you're coming from. I'm straight but still feel comfortable strongly disagreeing with those lesbian seperatists(*) who believe (a) all men are evil and (b) all women in heterosexual relationships are traitors to the feminist cause.

(*)And I'm not saying this is all of them, but I have very rarely encountered this attitude